Do I tell anyone I am doing this?
That’s completely up to you, isn’t it? Some couples do and some don’t.
There are plenty of studies that try to group you and predict your response according to type, but you should only act as you feel comfortable.
You will decide according to how you feel at the time; this may change after conception, birth and even as your child grows. And the correct decision for you will become clearer (or may even change) as you grow into motherhood and family life.
The correct answer to this question is as unique to you as your family unit.
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